Self Control, Conscience and Self Government, and Lawful-TORAHful Sex. Sex Alone DOES NOT EQUAL MARRIAGE! A Legitimate Biblical MARRIAGE COVENANT includes a signed/confirmed Ketubah/Covenant, Witnesses and Consummation with a Sealing of Blood. Set Boundaries and Beware of Intellectual and Emotional Intercourse. Check out Maria Merola’s Article WHAT CONSTITUTES A LEGITIMATE BIBLICAL MARRIAGE COVENANT!!